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Vocations Starting fall 2010, parishioner James Cucunato will be attending the College Program of St. Joseph Seminary that is located on the campus of Loyola University in Chicago. Please keep James in your prayers as he begins a new and exciting chapter in his discernment process of responding to the call he feels from God to dedicate his life to the service of the Lord and his Church as a diocesan priest.
Sean O'Connell-Priest Hugo Londono - Priest, past seminary intern Luke Strand - Associate Pastor, Holy Family-Fond du lac, past seminary intern Phil Bogacki - Associate Pastor, St. John Vianney, past seminary intern. Holy Orders - Ordination Banns Most of us are familiar with Wedding Banns appearing in our parish bulletin from time to time as couples prepare to celebrate the Sacrament of Christian Marriage. Much less common is the appearance of Ordination Banns. Whenever a parish is blessed to have a candidate for Holy Orders being presented for ordination as a deacon or priest, the local parish is asked to publish the customary Banns for three consecutive weekends in the bulletin. These banns are meant as a public announcement that helps assure that no impediments to Orders exist and as a public announcement of the upcoming, joyful celebration. Links
Deacon Larry LaFond celebrated the 25th anniversary of his ordination to the diaconate on January 22, 2007. St. Dominic Parish has been graced with Larry's presence and service for the past 14+ years, but his humble, somewhat bewildered journey to the diaconate started years ago by a simple invitation by Walt Henry, a fellow deacon. Fr. Dave: What led you to discern if God was calling you to ministry as a permanent deacon? Larry: "Walt Henry, a member of Immaculate Heart of Mary Parish was seeking direction in his faith life and decided to look into the diaconate program. Walt thought he would ask me to join him. I replied you must be out of your mind! I turned him down flat."
Over the years, Larry said, that simple invitation became a nagging thought, not unlike a toothache that would not go away. It was as an adult chaperone for a CYO canoe trip to Crystal River with St. Margaret Mary Parish that God spoke loud and clear. Larry had never been in a canoe before. His efforts to steer the canoe were fruitless. He tried in vain to control the canoe until he was physically drained. God was speaking to Larry. God was telling Larry that He was in control of his life, not Larry. Larry finally called out, "Ok, ok, just don't drown me!" He filled out the paperwork, but would not send it in. While on vacation in New Hampshire, away from his everyday life, he decided to take the plunge and mailed it in. To his surprise, he was invited into the program. Fr. Dave: Cathy, how did you deal with Larry's desire to respond to God's call and how has his ministry as a Deacon affected you, your marriage and your family?
Fr. Dave: Looking back over the years, what were some of the memorable experiences in your ministry? "The father of our son Mark's twin friends was a good long distance runner in excellent health until he suddenly collapsed at a party. He was diagnosed with cancer and became very sick. One of the twins asked Larry if he would go and see his dad. Larry asked, "When do you want me to come?" The boy said, "how about tomorrow morning?" Larry had a wonderful talk with the father and before Larry left, asked if he could bring him Communion. They prayed, and Larry came back the next day to give him Communion. Then everyday for 3 months Larry visited, except for Saturdays. He first brought Communion for the father; then the wife requested Communion, and then the twins, and then the daughter-in-law. Larry laughed, "It became a Communion Service! But what impressed me was that the whole family always accepted the illness, found ways to laugh and enjoy life, and maintained a strong faith in God."
"My greatest happiness is meeting people and getting to know them," said
Larry immediately. "If anyone thinks God may be calling them, my
recommendation is, Listen!" Deacon Larry
I work for the Medical College of Wisconsin as Director of Instructional
Media for the Department of Anesthesiology. Most of the St. Dominic school
families are more familiar with my wife Linda. She works as the school
lunchroom/playground supervisor. Her work is truly a "labor of love." Our
daughter Amy attended St. Dominic School K-5 thru 8th grade, and just graduated from
Marquette University…she may be a Marquette "Golden Eagle", but I will always be
a "Warrior." Linda and I view St. Dominic's as an extension of our home / family life. We have been active in many areas over the years... parish council, school board, home & school association, delegate for the archdiocesan pastoral council, numerous committees, lector and Eucharistic minister to name a few. I am a product of Jesuit education, having attended both Marquette High and Marquette University, so the Ignatian, Jesuit tradition of service and "being a man for others" has had a profound impact and influence on my life. A number of years ago, I was struck by the words of Psalm 116: "what return
can I give to the Lord for all his goodness to me." I felt a desire to do
something more for the Church. Over time, the feelings waxed & waned but they
would not go away. Encouraged by our previous pastor, Fr. Curt and others to
look into the Diaconate, I inquired back in the mid -90's, but the time did not
seem right for the required commitment. A second inquiry was made a few years
later, but I was still unsure. Finally, my third inquiry in 2003 was the charm!
Everything seemed to fall into place and after a long year of interviews and
evaluations, my application to the Diaconate Formation program at St. Francis
Seminary was accepted.
The Diaconate dates back to the early church when the apostles called forth
individuals to help serve the needs of the faith community, allowing them more
time to preach the Gospel. St. Steven is considered to be the first
Deacon. Over time, however, the ministry of the Deacon disappeared. In the
1960's, Vatican II recognized a need for the Church to be active and present in
society and in the workplace, so the ministry of the Permanent Diaconate was
reinstituted. So who is the Deacon? The Deacon is more than an adult altar boy! He is an ordained minister of the Church called to minister in word (in which he proclaims the gospel and preaches), worship (in which he assists the priest at liturgies, is an ordinary minister of the Eucharist, baptizes, witnesses marriages, presides at funeral services and leads the community in prayer) and service (ministering to the community in many different settings from the parish to hospitals and nursing homes, prisons, or shelters for the abused and homeless). Service, in fact, is the hallmark of the Deacon. The word "deacon" comes from the Greek, "diakonia," which means "to serve." The Deacon bridges the gap between the Church and society, bringing the presence of the Church and Jesus Christ into the workplace, the home and community. He is a servant-leader who works to empower others by fostering their gifts of service. Now my five-year journey of formation and study in response to God's call to serve His Church as a permanent deacon is nearing completion. It's hard to believe that the long awaited Ordination Day of June 13 is only a few months away. Amidst the final classes, my fellow deacon candidates and I are busy planning the ordination liturgy, designing invitations, selecting vestments, and drafting ministry covenants with our parishes. It is with great joy, satisfaction and relief that the long years of formational study will soon be over. At the same time, there is a certain amount of sadness, as I will miss routinely seeing my classmates who will go their separate ways, venturing into parish and diocesan ministries. The bonds of friendship, prayerful support and spiritual growth that the 10 of us have forged and experienced over these years of study are truly God's gifts. Without the Holy Spirit's presence and support for us and our families along this arduous journey, I don't think Ordination would have become a reality. One of the greatest attractions for me is that the Deacon is part of the same fabric of the community and parish family he serves. He shares in the same joys, problems and daily life responsibilities, paying the bills, shoveling the snow, changing the kids diapers, while at the same time, he is a representative of the Church and her mission in society of building up and making present the kingdom of God. I look forward to continuing the work of the Deacons here at St. Dominic's: Larry LaFond & John Libecki, as we are all called to SEEK, KNOW and BECOME Christ for the sake of one another.
Making a Gift for Jesus
It's nearly impossible to ever take a step in discernment without getting beyond ourselves through the process of making a complete gift of ourselves. We can mull over, sort through, and analyze a difficult decision year after year. If we do not challenge ourselves by prayerfully making a genuine self-gift, it will be very difficult to discover God's call. We will continually ponder the potentiality of making a decision, rather than coming to the realization that the way has been pointed out for us by Christ Himself (Prv. 16:9). If our hearts are truly focused on Jesus and His will in our life, we will not only hear the words, "Follow me," but will have the courage to respond. This response to Christ is where our vocation comes to fruition, where we as Christians strive to be imitators of God, united in His love. "Make a gift?" you ask. How about helping out at your parish with religious education, RCIA, liturgical ministries, or even office work? Have you thought about going on a mission trip, serving at the local soup kitchen or homeless shelter, visiting the sick, calling a friend whom you know is depressed, ministering on a college campus, starting a Bible study group, helping with pro-life work, and most importantly, before all the others, praying in front of the Blessed Sacrament! The opportunities are bountiful. If you can’t think of anything, ask your pastor, or better yet, start something!
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